

I know that it can be stressful to take care of someone that you care about who is sick, however, I wonder if it is a state of mind. Don't get me wrong, I have many days where I look at the pups and can only think of the fact that they are sick and I am overwhelmed with sadness thinking of the day that they won't be here with me. But what I mean is that there is a sense of joy that I get from the daily routine that we have made for ourselves. I used to think that my days were so full, that I couldn't possibly add any more to it. Yet, what I have found is that there is always time to do things for the ones that you love. What is our routine like?
Every two weeks I sit down on a Saturday (like today) and make a menu for the next two weeks. The key to making your own dog food is that you need to change things up on the vegetables and fruits in order to make sure that your pups are getting the nutrition that they need. Once the menu is selected, then it is a trip to Sam's to buy supplies in bulk.
Sunday is the day that we cook for the week, I have always tried to do this for Kevin and I so now I just add cooking for the dogs at the same time. The funny part is that I can typically cook 3 meals for Kevin and I in the time it takes me to cook one week's worth of food for the pups. Making dog food is like making your own Chinese food, there is so much chopping and prep work that it takes longer. But again, instead of looking at this as a chore, I enjoy the methodical nature of chopping and cooking and knowing that I am making food that helps to keep the pups feeling good.
Each morning we get up early so that I can get the pups breakfast together. There is the warming of the food, the mixing of the medicine/herbs, the making sure that the pups are eating their own meals and not the others, cleaning the bowls, and letting the pups out to go to the bathroom and checking to make sure that everything is ok with their poop. Yes that's right, I have to check poop daily to make sure that they are solid, do not contain blood, and the pups are not straining. The reason for this is because all of the drugs/herbs that they are on can have side effects which need to be watched for and adjustments to their diet and meds if needed.
The routine starts again at dinner time. Then there are massages to help keep circulation in the pups legs, as they both had lymph nodes removed and we need to make sure that they are able to keep fluid from building up.
Right before bed, there is another snack, as we have discovered that going from dinner to breakfast is too long and cause the pups to vomit in the morning without the snack in between.
You would think with this routine each day, that it would become tiring or that you wouldn't be able to find other things to do in between. But it has become my way of starting the day and my way of ending the day and the time between is plenty to work and build more memories.
So for those that are taking care of a loved one who is sick, I know how tiring it can be, but it can also be rewarding when you watch how your efforts help to make them feel better. I look at my pups each day and am in amazement at how well they are doing. My goal of keeping them as happy as possible until they are ready has been a great experience so far.